The latest episode of the Love Lingo Podcast features Mozez Singh, —a multifaceted writer, filmmaker, and fashion lover who is a prominent advocate for LGBTQ+ rights. Known for his unique aesthetic and compelling persona, Mozez engages with hosts Arsala Qureishi and Jas Sagu on the intricate theme of “Radical Love as Self-Acceptance.” This episode delves into Mozez’s personal and professional journey in navigating the complexities of authenticity and self-expression in the dynamic realm of Bollywood.
Mozez articulates dismantling the privileges associated with his background: “Growing up in a privileged environment, I had to engage in a deep unlearning process. The sense of entitlement I experienced meant that peeling off those layers felt akin to stripping old paint from a wall—you think you’ve revealed your true self, but often it’s merely a façade. This disillusionment led me into unhealthy dynamics, yet such experiences are intrinsic to personal growth.”
He also recounts a pivotal moment when he came out to his family one chilly evening in London. “After a family gathering, I found myself grappling with the courage to disclose my sexual orientation. The weight of that revelation was immense, but upon sharing it, I felt an unexpected sense of relief—an emotional clarity that I hadn’t anticipated. The authenticity of that moment was transformative.”
“Self-acceptance is not a finite goal; it’s an ongoing practice,” Mozez reflects. “It’s a daily commitment to self-kindness, especially in the face of external challenges. Embracing my truth catalyzed a profound alignment in my life.”
In discussing his experiences within Bollywood, Mozez confronts the issue of nepotism with forthrightness: “If I were to have a child, I would naturally aspire to provide them with opportunities—legacy is significant to me. However, there is an ethical boundary; legacy should not entail inhibiting genuine talent or treating individuals harshly. Regrettably, I have been exposed to that unfortunate reality.”
Transitioning to a lighter note, Mozez admires Uorfi Javed’s audacious self-presentation: “She embodies fearlessness! Uorfi is a quintessential example of radical love, unapologetically living her truth despite societal judgment. Her energy is profoundly magnetic.”
Mozez reveals insights into his recent documentary project collaborating with Honey Singh: “The juxtaposition of our personas—’ He’s Honey, and I’m Bunny‘—encapsulates our dynamic. Documenting Famous was an incomparable experience; Honey’s willingness to be candid sets him apart as one of the most transparent artists I’ve encountered on camera.”
For Mozez, the metrics of success extend beyond conventional boundaries, “I define success through two lenses: the first is securing work and opportunities; the second is maximizing those opportunities by exceeding expectations and giving back. True fulfillment arises from this process.”
